Navigating family law matters — especially divorce and child custody — can be daunting. At Hobson & Hobson, P.C., we understand that clients want clarity on what truly matters in court. If you’re wondering, “what does a family court judge want to hear?” — especially in Georgia — this guide offers a professional, client-centric perspective rooted in decades of experience.
Understanding the Judge’s Perspective in Georgia Family Court
Family court judges in Georgia are guided by a single, overarching principle: the best interests of the child. Whether the issue is divorce, child custody, or support, judges focus on what will best promote the child’s welfare and happiness. Only a judge — not a jury — can decide custody in Georgia, making it essential to understand what courts look at when deciding custody.
The Best Interest Standard
Georgia law requires judges to consider the “best interest factors child custody” when making decisions. This means looking at the whole family situation, not just following a checklist. The law is designed to be flexible, allowing judges to tailor decisions to each unique case (Georgia Code § 19-9-3).
What Are the 12 Best Interest Factors Child Custody?
While Georgia doesn’t have a fixed list of 12 factors, courts commonly consider:
- Emotional ties and bonds between parent and child
- Parental fitness and stability
- Capacity to provide for the child’s needs (education, health, etc.)
- Parental involvement in daily activities
- Home environment stability
- Parental mental and physical health
- History of substance abuse or untreated mental illness
- Willingness to foster a relationship with the other parent
- Child’s preference (if age-appropriate)
- Evidence of domestic violence or abuse
- Each parent’s work schedule and flexibility
- Any other relevant factor affecting the child’s welfare
For a detailed breakdown, see the Georgia Legal Aid Custody Guide.
Key Factors Judges Consider in Custody Cases
Emotional Bonds and Parental Relationships
Judges want to see strong, healthy emotional ties between parent and child. Evidence of meaningful relationships — like attending school events, helping with homework, or participating in extracurricular activities — can be persuasive. Consistent involvement in your child’s life is a major advantage.
Parental Fitness and Stability
Stability is paramount. Judges evaluate:
- Mental and physical health
- Consistency in employment and housing
- Ability to meet educational and medical needs
- History of responsible parenting
A parent who has overcome past challenges and established a stable lifestyle demonstrates growth and commitment, which courts value highly.
Consistency and Routine
Children thrive on routine. Frequent job changes or moves may raise concerns about a parent’s ability to provide a predictable environment. However, showing recent improvements — such as stable employment or a new, safe home — can positively influence the court’s view.
Health Improvements
Georgia law specifically allows judges to consider improvements in a parent’s health when making custody decisions. If you’ve addressed past health issues, be prepared to show how these changes benefit your child.
Willingness to Support the Child’s Relationship with the Other Parent
Judges look for parents who encourage a positive relationship between the child and the other parent. Demonstrating flexibility and cooperation — such as accommodating visitation schedules — reflects maturity and a focus on the child’s best interests.
What Does a Family Court Judge Want to Hear?
When preparing for court, focus on these key points:
- How your proposed arrangement serves your child’s best interests
- Evidence of your consistent involvement in your child’s life
- Your ability to provide stability and meet ongoing needs
- Your willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent
- A clear plan for addressing any specific needs or challenges
Judges are not interested in parental grievances or personal attacks. Instead, they want to hear solutions, cooperation, and a genuine commitment to the child’s well-being.
How to Convince a Judge to Give You Custody
If you’re asking, “how to convince a judge to give you custody,” the answer lies in preparation and presentation:
- Document your involvement: Keep records of your participation in your child’s life — school meetings, medical appointments, extracurricular activities.
- Demonstrate stability: Show evidence of steady employment, a safe home, and a reliable routine.
- Be respectful and cooperative: Judges notice parents who are willing to work with the other party for the child’s benefit.
- Address concerns proactively: If there are past issues (health, substance abuse, etc.), provide documentation of improvement and ongoing support.
For more tips, see FindLaw’s guide on child custody factors.
The Role of Professional Representation
At Hobson & Hobson, we leverage over 30 years of combined experience and specialized litigation training to guide clients through complex family law matters. Our approach balances empathy with assertive advocacy, ensuring your parental rights and financial interests are protected.
We utilize advanced technology to streamline case management, provide transparent communication, and deliver efficient legal solutions. Our five convenient office locations in Atlanta, Canton, Marietta, Alpharetta, and Milton ensure accessibility and support throughout your case.
Recent Trends and Insights
As of 2025, Georgia courts continue to emphasize parental fitness and stability. Judges are increasingly attentive to:
- Mental health awareness: Courts recognize the importance of mental health and may require evaluations or counseling as part of custody arrangements.
- Virtual visitation: Technology is being used to facilitate parent-child contact, especially in long-distance or high-conflict cases (American Bar Association).
- Child’s voice: Older children’s preferences are given more weight, provided the child is mature enough to express a reasoned opinion.
Frequently Asked Questions
What do judges look for in child custody cases?
Judges look for evidence that a parent can provide a stable, loving, and supportive environment. They consider emotional bonds, parental fitness, consistency, and willingness to foster the child’s relationship with the other parent.
What are the best interest factors in child custody?
The best interest factors include emotional ties, parental stability, ability to meet the child’s needs, home environment, health, and willingness to cooperate with the other parent. For more, visit the Georgia Legal Aid Custody Guide.
How can I improve my chances of getting custody?
Demonstrate consistent involvement in your child’s life, provide a stable home, address any past issues, and show a willingness to work with the other parent. Professional legal guidance can make a significant difference.
What does a family court judge want to hear during a custody hearing?
Judges want to hear how your plan benefits your child, evidence of your involvement, and your commitment to supporting the child’s relationship with the other parent. Avoid personal attacks and focus on solutions.
How can Hobson & Hobson help me with my custody case?
We offer experienced, innovative, and client-focused representation. Our team helps you prepare a compelling case, leveraging technology and legal expertise to achieve the best possible outcome for your family. Learn more at thehobsonlawfirm.com.
At Hobson & Hobson, P.C., we’re committed to guiding you through every step of your family law journey with clarity, innovation, and unwavering support. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward a brighter future for you and your family.
References & Further Reading:
- Georgia Legal Aid: Child Custody in Georgia
- Georgia Code § 19-9-3
- FindLaw: Child Custody Factors
- American Bar Association: Family Law Resources
- thehobsonlawfirm.com
Attorney Sarah Hobson at Hobson and Hobson, P.C. are powerful advocates for those who fight for better futures for those going through divorce and custody law matters.