Estate Planning After a Divorce

Estate Planning After a Divorce

After a divorce is an excellent time to implement an estate plan or to review and amend your existing plan. Once your divorce is final, it is crucial to update your will, living trust, and other estate planning documents.

If you have an estate plan, your former spouse probably figured prominently in it. He or she was probably a beneficiary of your will or trust, and may have been your executor or trustee. He or she may also have had your financial and health care powers of attorney. Even if your divorce voided these arrangements (as it does in some states), you want to amend your plan to replace your former spouse or confirm that you want your ex’s role in your plan to remain unchanged.

If you need to talk to an estate planning lawyer, contact Hobson & Hobson today to schedule a consultation.

If you have retirement accounts or life insurance, you may have named your spouse as the beneficiary. If your divorce canceled the beneficiary designation and you don’t have an alternate beneficiary, your estate will be the beneficiary, which may be undesirable if you intend to avoid probate or minimize taxes. If your divorce did not affect your beneficiary designations, your ex is legally entitled to the asset when you die, despite the divorce.

If you haven’t prepared an estate plan, now is a good time to do so. Many people put off making an estate plan thinking it is just too complicated, they don’t really need one, or they have plenty of time to think about it.

Everyone needs an estate plan, no matter what the size of the estate. And no one knows what the future holds. You may be able to wait until your golden years, but why take that risk?

Estate Planning is for Everyone

You don’t have to be extraordinarily wealthy to need a plan that ensures your property is passed on to your loved ones as quickly and inexpensively as possible. You’ll also want to make sure your wishes regarding end-of-life medical care are followed regardless of how much money you have.

Estate planning has five major purposes, one or more of which doubtless applies to you. With a good estate plan you can:

  • Designate how your assets are to be distributed among beneficiaries after you die.
  • Avoid or minimize the delays and expense of probate.
  • Appoint a guardian for your minor children and a person to manage the children’s assets.
  • Provide for your incapacity.
  • Minimize estate taxes.

Distribution of Your Property

If you die without an estate plan, the state will provide a plan for you. Every state has an intestacy statute that specifies who gets your property if you die without a will or other documents for passing your property. The statute is a “one size fits all” plan that attempts to predict how most people would like their property distributed. Typically, your property would go partly to your spouse with the rest to your children in equal shares. If you don’t have a spouse or children, your property would go to other relatives such as parents or siblings.

This plan may not be suitable in many instances. For example, you may want to:

  • Leave unequal shares to your children because they have different needs or you have already provided more help to one during your life.
  • Ensure that property left to minor children will be properly managed or will not be managed by their other parent (your ex-spouse).
  • Ensure that property left to a second spouse will go to your children from an earlier marriage on the spouses’ death, rather than to the spouse’s children or relatives.
  • Disinherit a child.
  • Leave your estate to a life partner to whom you are not married.
  • Leave a gift to a grandchild, more distant relative, or friend.
  • Leave a contribution to charity.

All of these goals require estate planning.


Probate, the court-supervised process of distributing your estate, can be time-consuming and expensive. You can minimize the assets that need to pass through probate or eliminate probate altogether by using certain devices as:

  • Living trusts.
  • Joint tenancies.
  • Bank accounts jointly owned with a right of survivorship or payable on death.
  • Life insurance payable to a beneficiary other than your estate or executor.
  • Retirement plans (e.g., IRA’s, pensions, and Keoghs).

Providing For Minor Children

If you have minor children, you will want to name a guardian to care for them in the event of your death. Although a court will need to appoint the guardian, most courts will follow your wishes in the absence of a compelling reason not to.

As a divorced person, should you die first, your ex-spouse will get custody of your children unless he or she is clearly unfit. This is true even if you had full legal custody and your will names someone else as their guardian.

If you don’t believe your ex-spouse is an appropriate person to have custody of your children, speak to your lawyer. You will want to document your concerns in your will or a letter and preserve any evidence you have of your ex-spouse’s unsuitability. The court will consider this material in making a decision.

Minors can’t be given property outright. You will need to designate someone to manage your children’s property until they are adults and able to manage it themselves.

As a divorced person, a will leaving everything to your children may not accomplish your goals. Since your ex will usually become the legal guardian of your children, he or she will control the property your children receive from your will. If you are not comfortable with this situation, you can establish a trust for your children and name a trustee to manage and distribute the property according to your wishes.

Preparing For Incapacity

In your estate planning documents, you can designate someone to manage your financial affairs should you become unable to do so. You can also specify how your incapacity is to be established. With the proper documents in place, you will save your family the expense and stress of having to go to court to get a guardianship.

You can designate a person to make medical decisions for you when you no longer can. And you can provide written guidelines for that person as to what type of end-of-life treatment you want.


Most people will not owe federal estate taxes. In fact, approximately 99.9 percent of all estates are not subject to the federal estate tax. But if you expect your estate to be worth more than around $11 million, you will want to meet with an estate planning attorney to discuss strategies for minimizing your estate taxes.


Every estate plan, regardless of the value of the estate, should include these essential documents.

  1. A will or living trust with a backup or a pour-over will. These are the foundation documents of the estate plan. For probate avoidance, you may prefer a living trust in combination with a will to dispose of property that doesn’t pass through the trust. If probate avoidance is not a goal (or is accomplished through other devices), then a will may be sufficient. These documents will allow you to designate how your property is to be distributed on your death. In a will, you can name a guardian for your minor children and an executor to oversee your estate. In a trust, you can name a trustee to oversee the distribution of trust property on your death and to manage the trust property should you become incapacitated.
  2. A durable power of attorney. This document allows you to name a person to manage your financial affairs if you become unable to do so.
  3. A health care power of attorney (also called a health care proxy). With this document, you appoint a person to make health care decisions for you if you become unable to make them for yourself.
  4. Living will (also called an advance directive). In this document, you can explain what type of care you would like at the end of your life. Your living will provides a guide for the person appointed in your health care power of attorney.

Additional documents may be necessary depending on the complexity of your estate and your estate planning goals. In addition, you should be certain to complete beneficiary designation for any assets that cannot pass through a will or trust, such as life insurance and retirement accounts.

Remember that estate planning is not a one-time event. Once you have your initial plan and documents in place, your and your estate planning attorney will need to review them periodically and revise them as necessary for changes in your financial circumstances or the law.

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