How to Start a Custody Agreement

Creating a custody agreement is one of the most critical steps for parents navigating separation or divorce. This legally binding document outlines how you’ll share parenting responsibilities, ensuring your child’s well-being remains the priority. Below, we break down the process of establishing a custody contract that protects your parental rights and your child’s best interests.

Understanding Custody Agreements

A custody agreement (sometimes called a parental rights agreement or custody contract) is a legal document that defines:

  • Physical custody (where the child lives)
  • Legal custody (decision-making authority for education, healthcare, etc.)
  • Visitation schedules
  • Holiday and vacation arrangements

In Georgia, courts prioritize the child’s best interests when approving these arrangements. Even if parents create a private custody agreement without litigation, having it reviewed by a family law attorney ensures it meets state standards.

5 Steps to Establish Custody Arrangements

1. Research Georgia Custody Laws

Georgia recognizes two custody types:

  • Legal Custody: Rights to make major decisions for the child.
  • Physical Custody: Where the child primarily resides.

Familiarize yourself with Georgia’s custody guidelines to understand how courts evaluate factors like parental stability and the child’s preferences (if age-appropriate).

2. Draft a Proposed Agreement

Include these key elements:

  • Weekly visitation schedule
  • Holiday and school break rotations
  • Transportation responsibilities
  • Communication rules (e.g., phone calls)
  • Dispute resolution process

Tip: Use templates from reputable sources like FindLaw as a starting point, but customize them to your family’s needs.

3. Negotiate with the Other Parent

Many parents use mediation to set up custody arrangements amicably. A neutral third party helps resolve conflicts, often reducing costs and emotional strain. Hobson & Hobson, P.C. offers mediation services to streamline this process.

4. File with the Court

Even if you’ve created a private custody agreement, filing it with the court provides legal enforceability. In Georgia:

  • Submit paperwork to your county’s family court.
  • Attend a brief hearing where a judge reviews the terms.

5. Formalize the Order

Once approved, the agreement becomes a court order. Keep a copy accessible and notify your attorney of any life changes (e.g., relocation) that might require modifications.

Types of Custody Arrangements

TypeDescription
Joint PhysicalChild splits time between both homes equally or near-equally.
Sole PhysicalChild lives primarily with one parent.
Bird’s NestChild remains in one home; parents rotate in/out.
Split CustodySiblings live separately with each parent (rarely recommended).

Legal Requirements in Georgia

  • Parenting Plan: Required for all custody agreements. Outline decision-making roles and dispute resolution methods.
  • Approval Process: Judges assess factors like parental cooperation and the child’s adjustment to their community.
  • Modifications: Requires showing a “substantial change in circumstances” (Nolo explains this in detail).

When to Consult an Attorney

While some parents create custody contracts independently, consult a lawyer if:

  • The other parent disputes terms
  • There’s a history of domestic violence
  • Complex assets or interstate issues exist

Hobson & Hobson, P.C. has 30+ years of experience negotiating and litigating custody agreements, ensuring your parental rights remain protected.

Modifying an Existing Agreement

To modify a custody order in Georgia:

  1. File a “Petition for Modification” with the court.
  2. Demonstrate changed circumstances (e.g., job loss, relocation).
  3. Attend a new hearing.

FAQ: How to Start a Custody Agreement

How do I start a custody agreement in Georgia?

Begin by drafting a proposed parenting plan. If both parents agree, file it with your local family court. For contested cases, consult a family law attorney.

Is a private custody agreement legally binding?

Only if approved by a judge. Unapproved agreements lack enforcement power.

What’s the difference between a custody contract and a court order?

A custody contract becomes legally enforceable once a judge signs it into a court order.

Can grandparents request custody arrangements?

Yes, under Georgia’s grandparents’ rights laws, but they must prove the parents are unfit.

How much does a custody agreement cost?

Uncontested cases: $500–$2,000. Contested cases: $3,000+ depending on litigation complexity.

Need Help? Hobson & Hobson, P.C. provides tailored guidance for how to set up custody arrangements that prioritize your child’s future. Schedule a consultation to discuss your case with our experienced Atlanta family law team.