Creating a custody agreement is one of the most critical steps for parents navigating separation or divorce. This legally binding document outlines how you’ll share parenting responsibilities, ensuring your child’s well-being remains the priority. Below, we break down the process of establishing a custody contract that protects your parental rights and your child’s best interests.
Understanding Custody Agreements
A custody agreement (sometimes called a parental rights agreement or custody contract) is a legal document that defines:
- Physical custody (where the child lives)
- Legal custody (decision-making authority for education, healthcare, etc.)
- Visitation schedules
- Holiday and vacation arrangements
In Georgia, courts prioritize the child’s best interests when approving these arrangements. Even if parents create a private custody agreement without litigation, having it reviewed by a family law attorney ensures it meets state standards.
5 Steps to Establish Custody Arrangements
1. Research Georgia Custody Laws
Georgia recognizes two custody types:
- Legal Custody: Rights to make major decisions for the child.
- Physical Custody: Where the child primarily resides.
Familiarize yourself with Georgia’s custody guidelines to understand how courts evaluate factors like parental stability and the child’s preferences (if age-appropriate).
2. Draft a Proposed Agreement
Include these key elements:
- Weekly visitation schedule
- Holiday and school break rotations
- Transportation responsibilities
- Communication rules (e.g., phone calls)
- Dispute resolution process
Tip: Use templates from reputable sources like FindLaw as a starting point, but customize them to your family’s needs.
3. Negotiate with the Other Parent
Many parents use mediation to set up custody arrangements amicably. A neutral third party helps resolve conflicts, often reducing costs and emotional strain. Hobson & Hobson, P.C. offers mediation services to streamline this process.
4. File with the Court
Even if you’ve created a private custody agreement, filing it with the court provides legal enforceability. In Georgia:
- Submit paperwork to your county’s family court.
- Attend a brief hearing where a judge reviews the terms.
5. Formalize the Order
Once approved, the agreement becomes a court order. Keep a copy accessible and notify your attorney of any life changes (e.g., relocation) that might require modifications.
Types of Custody Arrangements
Type | Description |
---|---|
Joint Physical | Child splits time between both homes equally or near-equally. |
Sole Physical | Child lives primarily with one parent. |
Bird’s Nest | Child remains in one home; parents rotate in/out. |
Split Custody | Siblings live separately with each parent (rarely recommended). |
Legal Requirements in Georgia
- Parenting Plan: Required for all custody agreements. Outline decision-making roles and dispute resolution methods.
- Approval Process: Judges assess factors like parental cooperation and the child’s adjustment to their community.
- Modifications: Requires showing a “substantial change in circumstances” (Nolo explains this in detail).
When to Consult an Attorney
While some parents create custody contracts independently, consult a lawyer if:
- The other parent disputes terms
- There’s a history of domestic violence
- Complex assets or interstate issues exist
Hobson & Hobson, P.C. has 30+ years of experience negotiating and litigating custody agreements, ensuring your parental rights remain protected.
Modifying an Existing Agreement
To modify a custody order in Georgia:
- File a “Petition for Modification” with the court.
- Demonstrate changed circumstances (e.g., job loss, relocation).
- Attend a new hearing.
FAQ: How to Start a Custody Agreement
How do I start a custody agreement in Georgia?
Begin by drafting a proposed parenting plan. If both parents agree, file it with your local family court. For contested cases, consult a family law attorney.
Is a private custody agreement legally binding?
Only if approved by a judge. Unapproved agreements lack enforcement power.
What’s the difference between a custody contract and a court order?
A custody contract becomes legally enforceable once a judge signs it into a court order.
Can grandparents request custody arrangements?
Yes, under Georgia’s grandparents’ rights laws, but they must prove the parents are unfit.
How much does a custody agreement cost?
Uncontested cases: $500–$2,000. Contested cases: $3,000+ depending on litigation complexity.
Need Help? Hobson & Hobson, P.C. provides tailored guidance for how to set up custody arrangements that prioritize your child’s future. Schedule a consultation to discuss your case with our experienced Atlanta family law team.

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