Divorce is a deeply personal and often complex process, shaped by a variety of factors unique to each couple. At Hobson & Hobson, P.C., we leverage over 30 years of combined experience to guide clients through the legal and emotional challenges of divorce. Understanding what causes divorce — and how the marriage ended — can empower individuals to make informed decisions and protect their interests.
Understanding Divorce Causes: National and Georgia Trends
Recent data reveals that while the U.S. divorce rate has reached historic lows — only 1.4% of married adults divorced in 2023 — the underlying reasons for divorce remain consistent. In Georgia, the most common reasons marriages end align closely with national trends, including infidelity, abuse, financial irresponsibility, addiction, constant arguing, growing apart, loss of emotional intimacy, and trust issues.
Marriage rates have also declined, which may contribute to the lower divorce rates. However, the challenges that lead to divorce persist, and in some demographics — such as adults over 50, known as “gray divorce” — the rates are actually rising. For first marriages, the divorce rate remains between 40% and 50%, underscoring the importance of understanding the top three reasons for divorce and the broader spectrum of what causes divorce in marriage.
1. Infidelity
Infidelity remains one of the most cited reasons for divorce. A breach of trust can create emotional fallout that is difficult to repair. In many cases, digital infidelity — enabled by social media and technology — has become a modern twist on this age-old issue, complicating both the emotional and legal aspects of divorce. Our attorneys are experienced in handling cases where evidence of infidelity becomes a pivotal factor in negotiations or litigation.
2. Abuse (Physical, Emotional, or Psychological)
Abuse in any form — physical, emotional, or psychological — is a clear reason for divorce and often necessitates swift legal intervention. Georgia law recognizes abuse as grounds for a fault-based divorce, and our team prioritizes the safety and well-being of our clients and their children. We are skilled in obtaining protective orders and advocating for our clients in contentious custody disputes where abuse is alleged.
3. Financial Irresponsibility
Financial issues are among the top three reasons for divorce. Disagreements over spending, debt, or lack of transparency can erode trust and stability in a marriage. High-asset divorces, in particular, require careful navigation of complex property division, business valuations, and prenuptial agreements. Our firm’s special litigation training ensures that we can efficiently and effectively protect your financial interests, no matter how complex your case.
4. Addiction
Addiction — whether to substances, gambling, or other behaviors — can devastate a marriage. It often leads to financial instability, emotional distress, and, in some cases, endangers children. In Georgia, addiction may be cited as grounds for divorce and can significantly impact custody and support determinations. We work closely with clients to gather evidence and advocate for the best interests of the family.
5. Constant Arguing and Unresolved Conflict
Frequent, unresolved conflict is a leading cause of divorce. Communication breakdowns can make it impossible to resolve even minor disagreements, leading to chronic dissatisfaction. Our approach emphasizes mediation and collaborative solutions whenever possible, helping clients find amicable resolutions and reduce the emotional and financial toll of prolonged litigation.
6. Growing Apart or Loss of Shared Interests
Many couples find that over time, they simply grow apart. Changes in values, interests, or life goals can create emotional distance that is difficult to bridge. This gradual drift is a common reason for divorce, particularly in long-term marriages. We provide supportive guidance to help clients navigate these transitions with dignity and respect.
7. Loss of Emotional Intimacy
Emotional intimacy is the foundation of a strong marriage. When that connection is lost, couples may feel isolated and unfulfilled. Loss of intimacy is often cited alongside other issues, such as infidelity or constant arguing, as a reason for divorce. Our client-centric approach ensures that emotional well-being is considered throughout the legal process.
8. Trust Issues
Trust is essential in any relationship. Jealousy, secrecy, and dishonesty can undermine even the most resilient marriages. In divorce proceedings, trust issues often manifest in disputes over finances, custody, or property. Our attorneys are adept at uncovering hidden assets and ensuring transparency, protecting your rights every step of the way.
High-Asset and Contentious Custody Cases
High-asset divorces and contentious custody disputes present unique challenges. These cases often involve business interests, real estate, investments, and complex parenting arrangements. Courts in Georgia prioritize the best interests of the child, sometimes appointing guardians ad litem or requiring detailed parenting plans. Our firm’s experience in high-stakes litigation and our commitment to leveraging advanced technology ensure that we are prepared to handle even the most complex family law matters.
The Role of Technology and Modern Life
Modern life introduces new dynamics to marriage and divorce. Technology has made it easier to connect — and to stray. Social media can be a source of both support and conflict, and digital evidence is increasingly relevant in divorce cases. Online divorce services and virtual mediation have made the process more accessible, but they can also oversimplify complex situations. At Hobson & Hobson, we use cutting-edge tools to streamline case management while maintaining the personal attention our clients deserve.
Government Guidelines and Georgia Divorce Law
Georgia law allows for both no-fault and fault-based divorces. No-fault divorces cite “irreconcilable differences,” while fault-based divorces may be granted for reasons such as adultery, cruelty, or addiction. Asset division follows the principle of equitable distribution, which does not always mean a 50/50 split. Our attorneys stay current with evolving family law regulations and leverage ongoing training to provide the most effective representation.
Professional Advice: Navigating Divorce with Confidence
Family law experts agree: early intervention, open communication, and professional guidance are key to achieving the best outcomes. Mediation and collaborative divorce processes can reduce conflict and expense, especially in high-asset or custody-focused cases. However, when litigation is necessary, our team is prepared to advocate aggressively to protect your interests.
Why Choose Hobson & Hobson, P.C.?
- Over 30 years of combined experience in divorce and custody cases
- Special litigation training for efficient, effective outcomes
- Focus on protecting parental rights and finances
- Balanced approach: empathy with aggressive advocacy when needed
- Five convenient office locations in Atlanta, Canton, Marietta, Alpharetta, and Milton
- Commitment to leveraging technology for seamless legal solutions
Our attorneys, led by M. Sarah Hobson and Christopher F. Hobson, are dedicated to helping clients make the best legal decisions during challenging times. We offer initial consultations to discuss your unique situation and outline a strategy tailored to your needs.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the top reasons for divorce in Georgia?
The most common reasons for divorce in Georgia include infidelity, abuse, financial irresponsibility, addiction, constant arguing, growing apart, loss of emotional intimacy, and trust issues.
How does Georgia handle property division in divorce?
Georgia follows the principle of equitable distribution, meaning assets are divided fairly but not necessarily equally. Factors such as the length of the marriage, contributions of each spouse, and future needs are considered.
Can technology impact my divorce case?
Yes. Digital evidence from emails, texts, and social media can play a significant role in divorce proceedings. Technology also enables virtual mediation and efficient case management.
What should I do if my divorce involves high-value assets or a custody dispute?
Seek experienced legal representation. High-asset and contentious custody cases require specialized knowledge and resources. Our firm is equipped to handle complex financial and parenting issues.
Is mediation an option for my divorce?
Mediation is often a cost-effective and less adversarial alternative to litigation. It can be especially beneficial in cases where both parties are willing to negotiate in good faith.
Additional Resources
- Georgia Divorce Laws – Georgia.gov
- CDC National Marriage and Divorce Rate Trends
- American Psychological Association: Marriage and Divorce
- Pew Research: Divorce Rate Trends
- Hobson & Hobson, P.C.
If you are considering divorce or facing family law challenges, Hobson & Hobson, P.C. is here to help. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward a brighter future.
Attorney Sarah Hobson at Hobson and Hobson, P.C. are powerful advocates for those who fight for better futures for those going through divorce and custody law matters.
