Once filed, the non-filing party must be served with a Summons and Complaint for Divorce. This may be achieved by personal service, or Acknowledgement of Service. Personal Service is achieved when a Sheriff Deputy or Private Process Server personally serves the non-filing spouse with the Summons and Complaint for Divorce. However, based on the circumstance of your case, it may be applicable to ask the non-filing party to sign an Acknowledgement of Service, which is filed with the Court and allows the non-filing party to waive their Constitutional right to personal service.

Once a party is formally served with a complaint for divorce, he/she usually has 30 days to respond to the filing with an answer. In the Answer, the non-filing party simply admits or denies the allegations contained within the Complaint. Moreover, the non-filing party has an opportunity to file a Counterclaim for Divorce, requesting the Court grant them a divorce based on their alleged grounds for divorce. Most importantly, a non-filing party is better off filing a Counterclaim for Divorce to preserve their right to proceed with the divorce action if the filing spouse decides to file a dismissal of their Complaint. Failure to file a counterclaim will not eliminate the non-filing spouses ability to proceed with the divorce; however, they will be required to pay the County filing fee and service fee, which would be unnecessary when proceeding on a Counterclaim for Divorce.

Discovery is known generally as a six month period when both parties have the power to request the other party for specific documents and questions to build their theory and arguments related to custody, child support, alimony and equitable division of assets. While the discovery process typically last for approximately six months, this period is subject to shortening or lengthening by the court. During this time period both parties can send written questions to each other (called interrogatories), request documents from the other person (requests to produce), ask the other party to admit that certain statements are true (requests to admit), and formally sit down with a court reporter and ask the other party (and others) questions that are relevant to the divorce (depositions). The goal of this process is to learn valuable information that will likely influence the outcome of case by gaining valuable information and documentation to establish your arguments based on Georgia law.

Georgia Courts understand that immediate resolution to certain stressful issues related to a divorce need to be temporarily resolved to allow your family structure and guidance during the divorce process. As such, either party can request a temporary hearing to address immediate concerns prior to a final trial. In most cases, questions related to where the parties will live, interim child support or alimony, and temporary custody/visitation decisions are made at this type of hearing. While this hearing is subject to revision on a final basis, a temporary hearing sets the precedent for the case. As such, effective representation and preparation by an attorney is recommended as a Temporary Order may be in place for months, if not years.

The phrase "Alternative Dispute Resolution" or "ADR" refers to any method of resolving a legal dispute other than litigation. Several counties and jurisdictions throughout the State of Georgia has established an Alternative Dispute Resolution office, which is responsible for working with judges to ensure each case complies with required mediation prior to reaching a final trial. While this provides another step to the divorce process, it is an amicable, cost effective means for parties and their representatives to get in a room with a neutral mediator and resolve their outstanding issues.
While Alternative Dispute Resolution is often effective, there are different methods that may be more beneficial depending on the specific circumstances of your case.
Mediation
Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution where a neutral or impartial person, aka a mediator, facilitates settlement discussions between the parties. The mediator is a highly trained practitioner, who is typically a licensed Georgia attorney who specializes in divorce mediation, that will listen to both sides of the case and assist an amicable resolution. Mediation is a non-adversarial system that eliminates the pressures of convincing a judge that your case is better than the other, and allows both parties to focus on compromise. If successful, both sides will reach a settlement on major issues related to the divorce. Most importantly, the parties are in control of the outcome and are not relying on a Judge to decide how their life and family will live following the divorce with regards to issues related to custody, child support, alimony and equitable division of assets.
Arbitration
Arbitration is the opposite of mediation in many ways. Arbitration is a form of adjudication where one arbitrator or a panel of arbitrators renders a decision in the case as presented by each party or their attorneys.
Settlement Conference
The term "Settlement Conference" can mean one of two things: A judicially hosted settlement conference or an informal settlement conference.A judicially hosted settlement conference is a form of mediation where the parties elect to retain the services of a retired Judge to act as the mediator. While similar to mediation, a Judicially hosted settlement conference allows the retired Judge to provide years of judicial training and expertise to evaluate and provide feedback as to how your assigned judge would likely rule. As such, both sides will hear a Judge's perspective of the issues of the case, and hopefully enable the parties to reach an amicable resolution. Conversely, an informal settlement conference is when the parties, and their respective counsels, meet together without a neutral party in an attempt to resolve outstanding issues prior to proceeding with trial.

When issues remain after the parties have exhausted all methods of alternative dispute resolution, one party can request that the matter go before their assigned Judge for a final trial. In Georgia, the party can elect for a bench trial, or jury trial. If the party elects a jury trial, they are required to file a "Jury Demand" putting the other side on notice that they have elected to have a jury of their peers determine certain issues related to the divorce. However, Georgia law does not allow a Jury to make final decisions related to all issues in a divorce (i.e. child custody). Most commonly, one spouse will request a bench trial, which simply means the assigned judge will hear arguments, testimony, and review evidence presented by both sides before entering a Final Judgment and Decree of Divorce, which will have specific orders as to how the parties will operate following divorce on issues related to custody, child support, alimony and equitable division of assets.5.